Saturday Question: Love Rules? Love Stinks?

I admit, the title is kind of a clickbait. Not that my regular readers need to be specifically enticed to participate in the SQ post, but I thought it would be a good playful way to pose a question related to a Valentine’s Day celebration.

While cooking our celebratory dinner, I decided to put on some music. Since I haven’t planned anything in advance, and I know my usual Italian Cooking Pandora channel by heart, I decided to check if my Sonos could offer anything occasion-appropriate. I checked, and there they were, two playlists – Love Rules and Love Stinks. And that gave me this idea.

Sonos Playlist

Saturday Question #253:

Do You Celebrate Valentine’s Day?

If yes, how? If no, why? Do you have special perfume(s) you wear on that day?

My Answer

We usually celebrate Valentine’s Day. We try not to participate in the organized part of it (other than using some decoration, themed napkins, etc.), but we cook something special, dress up and watch something romantic. And I always wear Annick Goutal Rose d’Amour. This year’s celebration was dampened by both of us being slightly sick. But we still managed to enjoy it. And my vSO spontaneously complimented me on my perfume (which was a miracle because even when not sick, he usually can’t smell what I’m wearing).

How about you?

Do You Celebrate Valentine’s Day?

Saturday Question: Have You Ever Used Fragrance Primers?

My G-d daughter recently sent me a link asking if I knew about the product and what I thought about it. The product was Optimal Habitat Fragrance Enhancing Primer. The claim is:

Imagine if your scent could last 24 hours…

Now it can, with our fragrance primer. Inspired by the resilience of nature’s ecosystems, Optimal Habitat works in harmony with your skin’s unique biology to create the ideal environment for scents to thrive. By forming a nurturing layer on the skin, each scent note is amplified, allowing it to bloom to its fullest potential.

I didn’t know anything about that primer, so I promised to ask my readers.

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Saturday Question #252:

Have You Ever Used Fragrance Primers?

Not necessarily this particular one but maybe some other similar product. Fragrance primer, booster or enhancer? Did it work? Would you repurchase?

My Answer

When I read a description for this product, I immediately remembered that I previously read about some other products that were supposed to work on extending perfumes tenacity on your skin. It took me a while to remember the name. It turned out, I was thinking in the right direction, but try typing “perfume” and “canvas” in a search engine and see what you’ll get. Finally, I figured out what it was – Canvas Fragrance Primer from Canvas & Concrete. It was released in 2014, and the Perfumeland was talking about it for some time. I’ve never got to try it. I don’t know what happened to that brand, but as of now, their website doesn’t respond.

I think that I read about some similar products as well, but I haven’t tried any of them. As I was researching the topic, I came across The Perfume Guy’s video on the topic. I have two of the perfumes he recommends as a booster – Molecule 01 (which I live) and D.S. & Durga I don’t know what (which I wasn’t impressed with). So, I might try using them in that role. though, to tell the truth, these days I rarely notice that my perfume has disappeared. And when I do, I re-apply it if I want to extend the experience or use that opportunity to wear or test a different perfume.

How about you?

Have You Ever Used Fragrance Primers?

Sunkissed Goddess by By Kilian

Sunkissed Goddess by By Kilian

Heya Crew, Yes, I know. MORE recently purchased decants from Surrender To Chance. That this decant cost about half of last fortnights Guerlain may surprise you all, it did me. Remember when By Kilian were one of the most aspirational priced perfume houses in the world? Sure, they’re still expensive US$295 for a refillable Sunkissed Goddess 50ml from the By Killian site but that only seems pricey now rather than outrageous.

Since 2016 when Estée Lauder acquired By Kilian I’ve kept a little eye out, not really focussing but now that they’ve released this Limited Edition fragrance based on the Polynesian staple Manoi oil I’m interested. One of the brands famous pillars is Bronze Goddess which retails about US$85 for 50ml EdT (US$98 BGNuit EdP) and is a favourite of both Undina and myself. My memory (correct for once!) tells me Undina loves to take it on tropical holidays and I tend to use it to blow away the winter blues. It’s a staple. Plus the Lauder crew have also been doing a slew of Soleils over at the Tom Ford counter that range from US$300-405 in 50ml EdP. So they’ve deduced that tropical sunscreen with a boozy beverage sells (rightly so) and made them in accessible to aspirational offerings. Clever.

Sunkissed Goddess by By Kilian 2024

By Killian gives these featured accords:
Ylang-Ylang essence, Tiare Flower, Coconut

On first spritz my mind goes in a hundred directions. Oh yes, tropical beach suntanning in the late afternoon with a Pina Colada in a big glass and sunscreen slathered on. The slight prickle of salt still on your skin and through your hair and the smell of hot sand. I remember a few years ago Manoi oil became a thing here in Oz. Particularly among the early 20s club kids. For a brief moment, maybe a couple of summers, you’d walk in the club and it would smell like you’d found paradise. The older girls sun baking by the local swimming pool, their skin glistening with Reef Oil when we were kids. It’s all here in the first whiff.

Ylang in spades, coconut and vanilla all rolled together in some very luxe body lotion that does smell good. Really good. The heart into the base gets a lovely green banana leaf that lifts the experience. Apart from that Sunkissed Goddess is pretty linear and lasts well. Good projection for the first couple of hours then a whispering skin scent.

Sunkissed Goddess by By Kilian decant

So then, does Sunkissed Goddess smell like it’s worth more than three times Bronze Goddess? Yes and no. While Sunkissed Goddess does seem more luxurious and 5* hotel lotion-y I enjoy the story that the Bronze Goddess line tells. They seem more interesting, especially the Eau Fraiche ones with their citrus top over the rest. 2019s Bronze Goddess, with remarkably similar notes list still manages to be less ponderous and more jumping with life.

Now I’d like to read your thoughts please. Do you have favourites? Is this a genre you like?
Portia xx

 

 

Saturday Question: Do You Still Have A Perfume Wish List?

Let’s stipulate once again that most of us have enough perfumes to last for years without us ever buying another full bottle, and we talked about it more than once. And yet…

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Saturday Question #251:

Do You Still Have A Perfume Wish List?

I am asking not about those wouldn’t-mind-owning-if-it-were-to-drop-from-the-sky wishes. But do you have a list of perfumes that you are actually considering buying at some point? If yes, do you have it in your head? Or do you write it somewhere? What perfumes are on your list? And if no, is it because you just haven’t come across any that you would want to buy? Or is it a conscious decision not to buy anything at all?

My Answer

I don’t need any more perfumes… And I am still on a “very-low-buy.” And yet, I have a wish list.

On that list, there are two perfumes that I will definitely buy eventually – Puredistance Gold and Papillon HeraGold has been on my list for almost 5 years: I finished the remaining couple of mls from the travel spray gifted by the brand that were left after a joint blogs giveaway hoping to buy my own bottle soon, but it hasn’t happened yet. But I still think it’s amazing and would want to wear it from time to time.

Two years ago, I fell in love with Hera after trying it from a sample I bought from Luckyscent. Buying a sample at that point was unusual for me, and I don’t remember why I decided to do it, not being a fan of the brand. Probably, because I liked their previous perfume, Bengale Rouge. I am glad that I did, because I find this perfume remarkable.

I don’t need more perfumes, but I’ll probably still buy these two. Eventually.

There is one more perfume that I know I should not be buying, but it keeps getting into my thoughts every time I see (and try) it at a store: Parfums de Marly Delina Exclusif. Until I tried this perfume, I was immune to this brand’s feminine offerings. I tried this one only because there was nothing else new in the store, and I was in the mood to test something… Now, every time I spray it at a store, for the first several minutes I think: “Nah, it’s not that great, I do not need it…” And then I can’t stop sniffing my wrist and later clothes it transferred to thinking how much I like what I smell.

How about you?

Saturday Question: Do You Still Have A Perfume Wish List?

Sunday Question: How Many Perfumes From The Luckyscent’s Best of 2024 Have You Tried?

Even though I rarely buy samples these days, and I definitely don’t buy full-priced full bottles, I keep my newsletter subscriptions for several perfume stores and brands. Not long ago, an email from Luckyscent caught my attention with the offering of a sample pack of their “Best of 2024” and I clicked on the link. The sample pack was sold out, but it provided a topic for this SQ. These are 15 Luckyscent’s Best of 2024 perfumes:

Jasmine Tea by ONE DAY
Wavechild by Room 1015
Brownie Pop by Maison Mataha
L’eau de Parfum by Cirque du Soleil
Mantes-la-Jolie by Astier de Villatte
Summer Hammer by Lorenzo Pazzaglia
Glow by AKRO
Jany by Sora Dora
Almond Tart by Theodoros Kalotinis
Manakara by Indult
White Rice by d’Annam
On a Cloud by J-Scent
Vanille Debauche by KYSE
Nota Vanilla by Ulyka Parfums
Coffee Addict by Theodoros Kalotinis

 

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Saturday Question #250:

How Many Perfumes From The Luckyscent’s Best of 2024 Have You Tried?

Would you recommend to try any of those that you tried?

My Answer

I am almost glad that by the time I saw that list the sample pack was sold out because I was tempted to buy it. Not only have I not tried any of these 15 perfumes, but I heard only of 5 brands on that list, Room 1015, AKRO, Indult, J-Scent and KYSE, and tried something from the last three of them.

How about you?

How Many Perfumes From The Luckyscent’s Best of 2024 Have You Tried?

Iris Pallida Extrait 6 by Guerlain

Iris Pallida Extrait 6 by Guerlain

Dear Looking Glass-ers, I have a decant from Surrender To Chance. Yes, it cost an arm and a leg BUT I really didn’t want a full bottle. What I wanted after trying the Les Extrait collection in stores was to have enough to really get to know them in my own time, without the miasma of all the other perfumes beating my nose to death. So that’s what I’ve done. My 2ml spray decant has lasted months because I put some on a forearm and spend the next few hours luxuriating in Iris Pallida Extrait 6.

If you can afford these then I envy you (just a bit). US$630 for 50ml of extrait.

ALSO! arrived this week in the mail from the lovely Ingeborg, all the way from Norway to Sydney! Thank you. I seem to have lost you on social media (if we ever were connected) so I thought the best way to get my thanks to you is here on ULG. Jin and I are really touched. HUG. They will have pride of place on the fridge.

Ingeborg Xmas Postcards

Iris Pallida Extrait 6 by Guerlain 2023

Iris Pallida Extrait 6 Guerlain

Guerlain gives these featured accords:
Iris, almond, musk, suede, sandalwood

First breath of Iris Pallida Extrait 6 is almond meal, dry orris and something quite bittersweet like nougat with wood chips and some weird greenery darkness. It’s like fermented grass in an unturned pile during the hottest peak of summer. Sounds vile but actually it adds depth and interest to a fragrance that would otherwise be too simple, pretty and dull. As I head into the heart the suede and sandalwood become more apparent and a streak of cold wet cardboard heads in. Cardboard is one of my favourite facets of iris, combined with the other perfectly blended notes it is interesting rather than repulsive. The super glam Guerlain version of cold wet cardboard.

Towards the end of the heart my ride gives old fashioned make up vibes. Powdery, lipstick-ish and a little of hairspray. Very movie star and every housewife trying to live up to their impossible standards of beauty.  This stays and gets more woody, yet still that distinctive iris/orris till fade.

Iris Pallida Extrait 6 by Guerlain decant

Iris Pallida Extrait 6 is gorgeous. I’m unsure why we got these as a group instead of dropping one each year and why on earth did they come in extrait? I would quite like to have enjoyed it with more effervescence in an EdT and a swipe of the extrait to give it some extra depth (Did LVMH not think these perfumes worthy of pillar status?) This though is what we got and if I could spend that money right now I would without hesitation.

What did you think?
Portia x

Sunday Question: Do You TikTok?

A day late, so it’s Sunday, not Saturday question this week. Even if you live outside of the main arena of the unfolding TikTok drama, most likely you at least read something about it. So, I thought it would be interesting to do a question related to a hot-button issue.

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Saturday Question #249:

Do You TikTok?

Do you have an account there? Do you use it? If you do, is any of the content you watch there perfume-related? What other content do you find interesting there? Would it affect you if it were to be banned in your country?

My Answer

I thought I registered an account at some point, but I can’t remember under which username. I recollect I thought of having my account registered with the name I use elsewhere – just in case, but now it is not recognized on the web, and it looks like either I’ve never installed it on my phone or deleted it after the initial sign-up. So, this probably answers most of today’s questions.

Even though I don’t use TikTok, I’ve always felt an instinctive animosity towards it: for me, it was the worst combination of Twitter (which I disliked for the short and short-lived content) and YouTube (not all the content, but I refer to those videos made specifically to click-bate users into watching them or to provoke the response). So, when shortly it was going down, I felt a twinge of schadenfreude. On the other hand, I have a guilty pleasure: on YouTube, I watch (not subscribe but watch when it finds me) a channel that covers different TikTok dramas. So, I would have missed that type of entertainment had the ban gone through. So, plus (schadenfreude) and minus (entertainment) cancel each other out.

Now, it looks like the crisis has been averted, and everything will be how it was. It doesn’t change anything for me and doesn’t affect me in the least. So, it means that I would be fine both ways – with or without TikTok available in the US.

How about you?

Do You TikTok?

Saturday Question: Have You Ever Experienced a Chimera Scent?

Occasionally, I try a perfume for the first time and feel an immediate rush of excitement. It smells so wonderful, so perfect, that I think I’ve discovered a new favorite. But then, on subsequent tries, I can never recreate that initial feeling. The magic seems to vanish, leaving me wondering if I imagined it all.

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Saturday Question #248:

Have You Ever Experienced a Chimera Scent?

Has that ever happened to you? Do you remember any specific perfumes that behaved this way? Have you ever been able to recreate that initial feeling with the same perfume?

My Answer

As it’s clear from the introduction to this post, this has happened to me more than once. I’d discover a perfume that seems perfect on the first try, only for that magical connection to slip away on subsequent wears. Luckily for me, these discoveries would occur before I paid for a full bottle. And still it feels disappointing.

Atelier des Ors has never been “my brand.” Those perfumes that I tried, I didn’t dislike, but none of them clicked with me. To explain how much I didn’t care for the brand, I must share that I refused free samples that a fellow-perfumista who worked with the brand at that time offered to send me: based on the previous experience, I didn’t expect to like other perfumes from the line, and I wanted to avoid an awkward explanation why I wouldn’t be writing anything positive about the brand.

On my visit to ZGO, a San Francisco-based perfumery, I tried a relatively new perfume, Pink me Up, only because I was fascinated by its color and thought that the name was a clever play on it. I liked it very much. The opening fruity-champagne burst was so appealing and carefree that I felt falling in love with the scent with each next whiff. It was one of the five samples that I bought there this day.

A couple of days ago, I tried Pink me Up again, for the last time. My sample is empty. Never once in these 15 months was I able to relive the scent I smelled at the store. I kept hoping it was an anomaly, and the next time I’d experience perfume I liked the first time. It hasn’t happened.

I do not have a theory why it happened in this case. Was my nose conditioned by the dozen of other perfumes I tried before it? Was I just excited to be at a great perfume store after a couple of years of “sensory starvation” caused by quarantine restrictions on travels? Was I seduced by the bottle?

It reminds me of wine tasting at vineyards. There, a wine sampled in the picturesque surroundings of a winery can seem extraordinary. Yet, when that same bottle is opened at home, it might not live up to the memory. Interestingly, with wine, the opposite can also happen: a wine that seemed just “nice” (bought on the trip in lieu of paying for testing) can transform into something special when enjoyed in a more relaxed, familiar setting or with good food. I don’t remember that ever happening with perfumes though.

 

How about you?

Have You Ever Experienced a Chimera Scent?

Silly Season 2025 in Review

Silly Season 2025 in Review

Hey crew, Well, it’s all over for another year of mayhem. Hope whatever you did, didn’t do, whoever you were with or without, that you had an OK time. That your mental health survived in tact. we had a roller coaster here in Oz.

Silly Season 2025 in Review

Christmas Eve Eve Jin, Kath and I go to the Sydney Fish markets. There have been others that joined us but for the last ten or eleven years we have been the core. We have some dinner on the waterfront and then Jin & Kath buy prawns for the festivities. It’s a lovely, fun thing to do and we have usually gone around 10pm but this year we went early, at about 8pm and got to see the sunset. Beautiful.

Silly Season 2025 in Review

Christmas Eve we always fill the table with friends and Jin does his famous roast pork with extra crackling. He also bakes a cauliflower. I do the rest of the baked vegetables and salads. This year we had 11 at the table and it was a riotous affair. Loads of stories and catching up. There were presents and booze. It never goes late because 4-5 hours of people is my limit. At about 10.45pm I stood up, thanked everyone and they were gone by 11pm. That meant I could clean the table, run the dishwasher a couple of times, have everything packed away and be in a huge, cool bubble bath by midnight. Heaven.

Silly Season 2025 in Review

This year on Christmas Day I did my best but honestly, I really did not want to go to my best friend’s sisters house. She’s a bully, a white-ant-er, a liar and a manipulator. I’ve sat by and smiled while she has undermined and humiliated my best friend for 25 years because my BFF has asked me to keep the peace as the sister uses her daughters as collateral. Just being around this woman is skeevy, makes me want to have a shower. Anyway, we were there 15 minutes and it was already pretty grim and then she started in on Kath. Hello Portia explosion. Not my finest moment. Was basically pushed off the property and told to leave or the police would be called. Oh well. Funny thing is, we had brought most of the food and she threw our cooler bags out with us. So there were about 10 people and we brought the prawns, ham, chicken, pork, potato salad, green salad and green bean salad. Don’t know what they ate but Kath came back to ours and we had a very quiet Xmas lunch that suited us perfectly. Jin is the smart one, as soon as he heard it was at the sisters place he said no, not going. So we came home, had loads of stories, some tears and laughter and generally enjoyed being together (as always)

Silly Season 2025 in Review

Jin and I had decided to do nothing this year for New Years Eve. He is on call 24/7 at the moment, covering jobs above him on the railways. Then one of our girlfriends who works at the Sydney Opera House found herself with four spare tickets to House Kitchen. It’s the eatery closest to the very point facing the Harbour Bridge and Sydney Harbour. Jin didn’t want to come so I rounded up three girlfriends and we had the most amazing time. All our food was included and it was very extravagant, delicious finger food. There were bands, singers, DJs and a slew of roving entertainment. All we had to pay for were drinks. AMAZING! We had a table to ourselves, seats all day and night, toilets nearby that were clean right to the end. Seriously, we had the chillest, most comfortable NYE of my life. I was driving so didn’t have much alcohol all night, just a sip of champagne with the girls at midnight, less than two fingers of drink in a flute.
We got a lift back to my car from one of my girlfriends. I felt something sharp poke me hard when I sat down but just moved my ass thinking I’d sat on a pin or coat hanger. Suddenly I felt so tired and really out of it just sitting in the back of the car, my eyes were unfocusing and I was just a little nauseous. It was like drugs but not in a fun way. By the time we got to my car I was just sleepy but opened the windows, drank a bunch of water and felt better, but not quite right. Dropped the girls home, drove to my home, fell into bed. Slept like dead people.
Next morning I wake up with a bad head, super dry throat, my bones aching, joints creaking and I feel pretty rough. My guess at this moment is I’ve got C19. I do a test, negative. Can’t think what’s wrong. About 6 pm though I sit awkwardly on a chair and feel this contusion on my ass. It’s a tender lump about the size of the palm of my hand. I get Jin to have a look and there are two really large holes in my ass, about 1.5cm apart. I’ve been bit by a spider. Yes, I have. No wonder. It takes me three days to properly recover. HA! How wild is that?

Silly Season 2025 in Review

Silly Season 2025 in Review Fireworks Tina

Silly Season 2025 in Review Kath

Christmas Eve was modern Cabochard by Gres, Christmas Day I wore Sancti by Liquides Imaginaires and NYE Ambre Nuit by DIOR with a couple of swipes of vintage Guerlain Shalimar extrait. These were good choices.

So there’s my run down,
Tell me your high and low lights please,
Portia xx

 

Saturday Question: Is “Interesting” A Compliment In A Perfume Description?

In everyday conversations, the word “interesting” often wears many hats. At times, it’s a sincere compliment, a way to acknowledge something as novel, captivating or thought-provoking. But in some contexts, “interesting” becomes a social buffer, a diplomatic way to mask uncertainty or mild disapproval. Whether it’s a friend’s questionable outfit choice or a movie that missed the mark, “interesting” is often a stand-in for “I’m not sure what to say, but I don’t want to sound rude.”

Perfumes conversations aren’t immune to that phenomenon. We often encounter scents that defy easy categorization. When words like “beautiful,” “fresh,” or “sensual” don’t quite fit or are not enough, “interesting” easily slips into the description. But what does it really mean when we call a fragrance “interesting”? Is it praise, critique or simply a placeholder for mixed emotions?

 

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Saturday Question #247:

Is “Interesting” A Compliment In A Perfume Description?

When do you characterize perfumes as “interesting”? Do you have any examples? What do you think when you read someone else’s description that includes this adjective?

My Answer

While I was thinking about this question, I was sure that in my vocabulary this definition came mostly in combination with “but not for me” or “but I don’t want to wear it.” But once I started looking into what I actually write as impressions in my daily wear diary, I discovered that during my testing, in 1/3 of the time when I mentioned that something was “interesting,” it was for perfumes that I liked (but didn’t love from the first sniff), wanted to test more and ended up getting at least a decant (and sometimes a bottle). But in the majority of cases, while acknowledging that perfume in question wasn’t bad, I knew that I wouldn’t want to wear it.

“Interesting” perfumes that stayed just that (an example, there were many more of such): By Killian Back to Black, Eris Parfums Belle de Jour and Frederic Malle Carnal Flower. “Interesting” that became “love”: Annick Goutal Ambre Fétiche, Hiram Green Arbolé Arbolé and Serge Lutens Boxeuses.

 

How about you?

 

Is “Interesting” A Compliment In A Perfume Description?